February 14 - Valentines Farewell


Harriet's Uncle Bob Martin is laid to rest at


Fort


Rosecrans


National


[Military,


clearly]


Cemetary


on


the


Point


Loma


Peninsula


in


an


impressive,


moving,


surreal






ceremony,


involving


the


unfolding


and


refolding of a flag -- ultimately given to the next-of-kin daughter Bonnie Sweeney, who,


after a trumpeter's solemn delivery of


taps,


delivers a brief homily.


Across


Cabrillo


Memorial


Drive,


to


the


wall


columbaria,


there


are


more


informal


reminiscences


of


this remarkable 103-year-old gentleman,


all on a gloriously summery winter afternoon (high 76).


The


day


begins


in


the


moderne


Mediterranean


modality


of


our


San


Diego


overnight,


just


north


of


downtown


San


Diego,


followed


by



a


jaunt


across





town


to


Tuna


Harbor


Park,


with


its


quixotic /


whimsical


monuments


and


striking


views.


Lunch


at


Fish


Market


Market,


wonderfully


organized


by


Bonnie...


reuniting


far-flung


relatives -- including Carolyn,


Rodie, and Matt --


over


sumptuous


spreads,


right


up


to


an


11th-hour


dash


to the


memorial.


After,


a


quick


circuit


along


the


Peninsula


and


final


gathering


at


Bonnie


and


husband


Bill's


local stay on Shelter Island.



Finally,


off with Harriet


briefly to the


adjacent scenic park


and


long progression,


on


circuituous


paths


near


invading


coastal


fog,


to


dark


destinations


in


the


dead


of night.